9 months. 10 countries. 100 skills. The best gap year ever.
The phrase, “get comfortable being uncomfortable,” has shaped my actions since I was a little girl. My father has constantly instilled this idea and way of life into me through both repeating the phrase and implementing it through his active parenting style.
I’ll never forget that for three consecutive summers in a row, he told me, “This is the summer you get tough.” Looking back on it, we laugh at his endless hope that I would “get tough” each summer. But, in hindsight I think his advice has encouraged me to become the adventurous person I am today: getting ready to take a gap year with Winterline. I challenge myself each year more so than the last to take a step even further beyond my comfort zone. My gap year is naturally that next step.
So, why am I even taking a gap year?
To take a step away from school
I have been on such an academically-motivated path for most of my life that I feel as if I’m going to burn out if I don’t take a break. I think I will be more confident going into college with the experience that Winterline will provide me during my gap year.
To learn more about myself and discover who I am
Although many people tell me that I have a clear vision of my identity, I tend to constantly ask myself, “Who am I?” as I’m sure most 17-year-olds do. I want to be able to learn more about my passions, what makes me tick, what I love to do, and who I truly am at my core.
To learn skills
The main reason I chose Winterline is because of the amount of countries we will visit and the amount of skills I’ll learn. I’m hoping to not only learn skills, but to become a more marketable and independent person as a result. I don’t want these skills to just last for the trip, but for my lifetime.
To have fun
This slightly goes back to my first reason, but I need to have some fun. I have stressed myself out way too much with school, golf, work, etc. due to my self-imposed “perfectionism.” I need to take a break from those day-to-day stressors and allow myself to let loose and have more fun in new and exciting environments.
To challenge myself to become comfortable being uncomfortable
This is the year I am going to “toughen up” and challenge myself in more exhilarating ways. Each year I make progress on learning to love being out of my comfort zone, so naturally I think Winterline is my perfect next step.
Compared to my friends who will all be attending college in the fall, I am definitely in the minority of what I am doing to prepare for my upcoming year. There are so many differences in how we are all getting ready for our years away from home:
Dorm shopping versus gap-year shopping
While all my friends are already Snapchatting pictures of red Target carts full of bedding, appliances and new clothes, I have just received my Winterline packing list and am currently deciding which travel backpack I should purchase for all my belongings. I am definitely already a bit envious that my friends don’t have to endure the anxiety and stress that comes with bringing less than 50 lbs of stuff for an entire trimester abroad.
Searching for a roommate versus preparing to be nomadic
Aside from a few friends who have decided to go “random” with their roommate, most rising freshmen have already found their perfect match and know what to expect with the person they’ll be living with. I, on the other hand, don’t even know how to start mentally preparing to have no stable roommate. Instead, I will be living nomadically with a large group of people for one year.
Picking out college courses versus having a trip itinerary
While my friends are trying to avoid taking Microeconomics at 8 AM, I have a specific trip itinerary that will not be changing based on whether or not I want to get up early. But I definitely can say I have a better pick of classes than most of my friends, like “SCUBA 101” and “Principles of BMW Driving.”
Keeping in touch with family and friends versus trying really hard to keep in touch
Although my friends and I will both be away from home, I think we will face some different obstacles in terms of trying to stay in touch with family. While the Wi-Fi on campus may be acting up and not letting students FaceTime their parents, I’m afraid that being completely off the grid at any given time may challenge me to think of new ways to keep in touch with my family… Pigeon messengers may be making a comeback for me. 🕊
Snapchats about school versus Instagram-filled travel posts
My Instagram will be filled with exotic pictures around the world while my friends’ feeds will be pictures at parties and football games. I will be trying to live vicariously through them in some ways (except when I see them post about midterms on Snapchat), but I know they will also be jealously drooling over my feed.
In spite of some of the amusing aspects that make up the differences between my preparations for a gap year and those of my friends getting ready for college, we are all feeling pretty nervous. We all will need to “get comfortable being uncomfortable” regardless of whether we are taking a gap year or going to college in the upcoming fall.
I am confident that I will be able to not only achieve what I have set out to do with this year, but that I will also be able to make new goals for myself that will encourage me to continue to step beyond my comfort zone in the future. Life is about getting comfortable being uncomfortable and I am ecstatic to start this journey in September.